Hi - this will be brief as more info is in the puerperal psycosis section (search aptblinds)
My partner has had a bad childhood and with two older children from a preious relationship (aged 17 &14) she lacked disapline - "it was up to the girls if they wanted disapline"
We had our 1st toghter now 15mths with an easy birth
She was alos being bullied at work with evedence of a diary (she was a teacher)
Her mental state was getting worse and i approached the health vistor months ago - we were planning to have a meeting so sort it out - unfortuately my partner got wind of this on mon morning 14/04/08 and we had a row that night saying i was controlling etc.
(she hit a kerb hard making it unroadworthy - so i took it off the road until fixed - she blaimed me for hitting the kerb then said the kerb jumped out on her) this is just one of many things. Unfortuetely the 14yr old - a spoilt little brat - plays on things like this
she said she had the devil in her, irrational , illogical, beleiving someone was sitting on our bed, guilt paranioa etc)
she does not see her parents that much and mine were closer to her than them. She dissapeared on tueday morn, we beleive that it was her childhood / work that trigered this but i am made out to be the perportrator.
I havnt seen them for two weeks tommorow however she made contact saying i was controlling and plotting against her to take amy away. ANy one else been through it. regards Adrian
